putting a end to argument

I learned over all my 12 years of my life to handle problems my way in I'm not talking about fighting I'm talk in real stuff so i want go to jail and personally my way of not to argue is to walk away and try not to start fights or put my self in a position to have to fight with any one or possible death and serous injury and i learned on my own how to stop conflict with out parents and teachers because it start more situations then there is and I'm trying to say is it is not always good to ask your parents for help wnen you have proublem and i am saying this because if you keep asking for help you will never know how to doit your self.